
30+ years of professional record. HR and IT are married together.
Global Head-level corporate experience. A strong foundation of Project Management. Full-spectrum of HR expertise (entire employee life cycle), including HR Analytics, and flavored with many years of hands-on experience in the Shared Service Center.
Founder and co-owner of www.empowerment-coaching.com, grounded in the following motto:
"Work for a Cause, not for applause. Live Life to express, not to impress"
Certified and appreciated by work colleagues, Coach for both individual and team coaching (GROW and Action Learning methods). MBTI profiler.
Project management practitioner in both Waterfall and Agile methods. Certified in the Design Thinking method by the University of Virginia Darden School of Business. Head of Programme Management Office for the transformation of the global service organization.
Available For: Advising, Authoring, Consulting
Travels From: online
Speaking Topics: coaching, mentoring, HR, organizational culture, employee engagement, internal communication
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From management Models to Leadership Styles . A Guide for 21st-century Leaders
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
What is relational leadership? The future of relationship-based leaders
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Are you a warrior?
Tags: Coaching, Health and Wellness, Leadership
The meaning of a pyrrhic victory - King Pyrrhus and his unhealthy aspirations
Tags: Careers, Coaching, Leadership
Theory of Psychosocial Development: Erikson's Crises and Stages
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Mental Health
Cognitive distortions and their impact on decisions
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Mental Health
What is cognitive dissonance: definition and influence on our decisions
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Socrates' Three Sieves: How to Sift Every Message Before We Deliver It?
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Social
The 50 best personal development books
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Artificial Intelligence Trivia: AI and Its Impact on the Future
Tags: Agentic AI, AGI, AI
A brief history of artificial intelligence
Tags: AGI, AI, Generative AI
Did coaching come before Christ?
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Fritz Perls: life, Gestalt therapy, quotes. What was unique about his approach?
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Mental Health
The Maslow's pyramid - is the hierarchy of need theory still relevant?
Tags: Behavioral Science, Health and Safety, Leadership
Sir John Whitmore - The father of business coaching
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Timothy Gallwey: The inner game and origins of modern coaching
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Innovation
Viktor Frankl: Psychiatrist who survived Auschwitz
Tags: Behavioral Science, Leadership, Mental Health
Carl Rogers and his influence on psychology, education, coaching and communication
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Mental Health
Psychological Phenomena and Cognitive Biases - A Complete Guide
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Why Confucius was so important for our civilization development?
Tags: Behavioral Science, Culture, Leadership
Why are some people more cheerful than others?
Tags: Behavioral Science, Health and Wellness, Mental Health
50 Minds That Changed the World and Influenced the Lives of Millions
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Noam Chomsky and his social manipulation theory
Tags: Behavioral Science, Culture, Mental Health
A holistic approach to the human being: body, mind, heart, and soul
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Health and Wellness
Boiled Frog Syndrome, Tall Poppy Effect, Pollyanna Syndrome: learn three major cognitive biases
Tags: Behavioral Science, Health and Wellness, Mental Health
Founder and Managing Partner
Tags: Coaching, Leadership, Management
Design Thinking Certificate by University of Virginia
Credential ID 66UPQSHVL9KV
Tags: Agile, Creativity, Design Thinking
Executive Coach and Performance Coach Certificate
Credential ID NB120034724511
Tags: Coaching, Leadership, Management
In-Group Favoritism - 50 Cognitive Biases To Be Aware Of
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Mental Health
Self Serving Bias - 50 Cognitive Biases To Be Aware Of
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Mental Health
Fundamental Attribution Error - 50 Cognitive Biases To Be Aware Of
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Top 10 Cognitive Distortions
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Top 50 Cognitive Biases
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Coaching - I could do it for free. Interview with Ryszard Skarbek
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Project Management Institute (PMI) Membership Certificate
Tags: Project Management
Mentor at Youth Business Poland Foundation
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Project Management Institute Mentor Certificate
Tags: Leadership, Management, Project Management
Management Consultant Ryszard Skarbek
Tags: HR, Leadership, Management
Super coach Ryszard Skarbek
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Dobry coach Ryszard Skarbek
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Coach Ryszard Skarbek
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Holistic Development: Why Performance Starts with the Whole Human
High performance is not created by productivity alone. It emerges from the integration of mind, body, emotions, and meaning. Organizations and leaders who ignore one of these dimensions may achieve short-term results, but rarely sustain long-term engagement, adaptability, and growth.
Sustainable performance starts with the whole human, not only professional skills.
Holistic development integrates four dimensions: Mind, Body, Heart (Emotions), and Soul (Meaning).
Burnout, disengagement, and poor leadership are often symptoms of fragmentation.
The future of leadership requires human integration, not only optimization.
Coaching becomes increasingly valuable because it helps people reconnect these dimensions.
For decades, the dominant model of performance looked deceptively simple:
“More effort = more results.”
This mindset shaped organizations, leadership models, corporate cultures, and even personal identities.
People learned to:
work harder,
think faster,
optimize productivity,
manage time more efficiently,
push through discomfort.
And for a while, this worked.
At least externally.
But beneath the surface, something is breaking.
Organizations became more productive, yet many people became:
emotionally exhausted,
psychologically disconnected,
physically depleted,
spiritually empty.
The paradox of modern work is striking: we have more tools than ever before, yet many people feel less whole than ever.
This is not merely a wellbeing issue.
It is a leadership issue.
A cultural issue.
A human development issue.
And increasingly, it is also a business issue.
Because fragmented people create fragmented systems.
One of the biggest mistakes modern organizations make is reducing human performance to cognition.
The implicit assumption often sounds like this:
“If people think better and work harder, performance will improve.”
But human beings are not software systems.
People are not only minds.
Human performance emerges from the interaction of:
thoughts,
emotions,
physical energy,
relationships,
beliefs,
meaning,
identity,
nervous system regulation,
and purpose.
This is why two people with identical skills can perform completely differently under pressure.
One remains adaptive and resilient.
The other collapses into stress, avoidance, or burnout.
The difference is rarely technical competence alone.
The difference is integration.
At Empowerment Coaching Krakow, we often describe holistic development through four interconnected dimensions:
These dimensions are not abstract philosophical concepts.
They are practical human systems that influence:
decision-making,
leadership quality,
adaptability,
communication,
resilience,
and long-term performance.
Ignoring one dimension affects all the others.
Strengthening one dimension can elevate the whole system.
The mind remains a critical component of performance.
Modern work increasingly rewards:
strategic thinking,
learning agility,
adaptability,
systems thinking,
cognitive flexibility,
and decision-making under uncertainty.
That is even more important in the AI era.
Because AI can process information faster than humans, the real value of human cognition shifts toward:
interpretation,
contextual judgment,
creativity,
ethical reasoning,
and meaning-making.
But the mind can also become a trap.
Many leaders live almost entirely inside cognition:
overthinking,
analyzing,
controlling,
optimizing,
forecasting,
mentally simulating every possible outcome.
This often creates the illusion of effectiveness while disconnecting them from:
emotions,
intuition,
physical signals,
and authentic relationships.
A highly developed intellect without emotional integration can produce brilliant strategies and poor leadership simultaneously.
That is why holistic development does not reject intellectual growth.
It expands it.
The body is perhaps the most neglected dimension of professional performance.
Modern organizations still operate as if human energy were infinite.
But the body always keeps the score.
Chronic stress, emotional suppression, poor recovery, lack of sleep, and constant cognitive overload eventually manifest physically.
The consequences are not only personal.
They become organizational:
reduced creativity,
lower adaptability,
emotional reactivity,
poor decision-making,
disengagement,
and burnout.
Many leaders understand the importance of wellbeing intellectually.
Far fewer treat it as a strategic capability.
Yet sustainable high performance is impossible without energy regulation.
The nervous system matters.
Recovery matters.
Movement matters.
Sleep matters.
Breathing matters.
This is not “soft”.
It is biological reality.
The future of leadership will increasingly require physiological self-awareness.
Because leaders who cannot regulate themselves struggle to regulate organizational systems under pressure.
For many years, organizations treated emotions as something inconvenient.
Professionalism often meant:
emotional suppression,
emotional neutrality,
emotional distance.
But neuroscience and organizational psychology increasingly show the opposite:
“Emotions are not obstacles to performance — they are part of the performance system itself.”
Emotions influence:
attention,
memory,
creativity,
decision-making,
motivation,
relationships,
and trust.
Ignoring emotions does not eliminate them.
It only pushes them underground, where they influence behavior unconsciously.
A leader who lacks emotional awareness may unintentionally create:
fear,
disengagement,
tension,
defensive communication,
and low psychological safety.
Meanwhile, emotionally intelligent leaders create environments where people:
think more openly,
collaborate more effectively,
adapt more quickly,
and recover more sustainably from stress.
The future of work will not become less emotional because of AI.
Paradoxically, it may become more emotional.
As technology automates technical tasks, human differentiation increasingly depends on:
empathy,
trust,
communication,
emotional regulation,
and relational intelligence.
These are deeply human capabilities.
They cannot be "outsourced" to algorithms.
Perhaps the most overlooked dimension of modern work is meaning.
Not motivation.
Not engagement campaigns.
Not corporate slogans.
Meaning.
Human beings need to feel that:
their work matters,
their effort connects to something larger,
their values align with their actions,
and their life is not merely a sequence of transactions.
Without meaning, even success becomes emotionally empty.
This explains why many highly accomplished professionals still experience:
internal dissatisfaction,
existential fatigue,
emotional numbness,
or quiet disengagement.
The problem is not always workload.
Sometimes the problem is disconnection from meaning.
This is especially visible among leaders.
People can spend years climbing organizational ladders only to discover that external success does not automatically create internal fulfillment.
Meaning acts as a stabilizing force during uncertainty.
When people understand:
why they work,
what they stand for,
and what kind of contribution they want to create,
they become:
more resilient,
more adaptive,
and more grounded under pressure.
That is why purpose is not merely a branding concept.
It is psychological infrastructure.
Burnout is often misunderstood as “working too much”.
But many people work hard without burning out.
Burnout frequently emerges from prolonged fragmentation.
For example:
The mind says “keep going”.
The body says “I’m exhausted”.
Emotions say “I’m overwhelmed”.
Meaning says “this no longer feels aligned”.
When these dimensions remain disconnected for too long, internal tension accumulates.
People begin operating against themselves.
Externally, they may still appear productive.
Internally, the system is collapsing.
This is why superficial solutions rarely work.
Burnout cannot always be solved by:
another productivity app,
another motivational speech,
or another corporate wellbeing initiative.
Sometimes people do not need optimization.
They need reintegration.
Many people assume that technological acceleration makes human development less important.
The opposite may be true.
As AI automates:
analysis,
information processing,
repetitive decision-making,
and administrative work,
human value shifts toward:
consciousness,
adaptability,
creativity,
emotional intelligence,
ethical judgment,
and meaning-making.
In other words:
the more advanced technology becomes,
the more important deeply human capabilities become.
This creates a profound leadership challenge.
Organizations can no longer focus exclusively on technical performance.
They must also develop:
resilient humans,
adaptive cultures,
emotionally intelligent leaders,
and psychologically sustainable systems.
The future belongs not only to technologically advanced organizations, but to humanly integrated organizations.
The best leaders are rarely the most technically perfect people in the room.
They are often the most integrated.
Integrated leaders:
think clearly,
regulate emotions,
maintain energy,
communicate authentically,
and remain connected to meaning.
This creates stability for others.
People do not only follow competence. They follow coherence.
In uncertain environments, human nervous systems constantly scan for signals of:
trust,
safety,
clarity,
and emotional consistency.
Leaders who embody internal alignment create stronger organizational systems.
This is why leadership development cannot focus only on:
skills,
tools,
or frameworks.
It must also involve:
self-awareness,
emotional maturity,
reflection,
and human integration.
This is one reason for coaching becoming increasingly valuable in modern organizations.
Not because people are weak.
But because modern environments are psychologically complex.
Coaching creates space for:
reflection,
awareness,
recalibration,
emotional processing,
and alignment.
It helps people reconnect:
performance with wellbeing,
ambition with meaning,
leadership with authenticity.
In many cases, transformation does not begin with learning something new. It begins with remembering what has been disconnected.
For many years, development was associated primarily with:
acquiring skills,
increasing productivity,
improving efficiency.
But the future may require a broader understanding.
Human development is not only vertical growth. It is integration.
Not only:
“How can I achieve more?”
But also:
“How can I become more whole?”
This shift changes everything.
It changes:
leadership,
organizations,
coaching,
culture,
education,
and performance itself.
Because sustainable excellence is rarely built on fragmentation.
It is built on alignment.
The future of work will not be shaped only by technology. It will also be shaped by the quality of human systems.
And human systems become stronger when people are not treated as:
productivity machines,
cognitive assets,
or organizational resources.
But as whole human beings:
Mind.
Body.
Heart.
Soul.
Not as separate categories. But as one integrated system.
Because ultimately:
“Sustainable performance starts with the whole human.”
Tags: Behavioral Science, Coaching, Leadership
Self-Awareness: The Meta-Skill of the Future Leader
As artificial intelligence automates more tasks and organizations become increasingly complex, self-awareness is emerging as one of the most important leadership capabilities of the future. Self-aware leaders make better decisions, build healthier cultures, adapt more effectively to change, and develop stronger relationships. In a rapidly changing world, understanding oneself may become one of the greatest competitive advantages.
Self-awareness is becoming a strategic leadership capability.
Technology increases external complexity and exposes internal blind spots.
Leadership effectiveness depends heavily on understanding one’s thinking, emotions, assumptions, and behaviors.
Self-aware leaders tend to make better decisions and build healthier cultures.
Coaching and reflection strengthen self-awareness.
The future belongs to leaders who continuously develop both external skills and internal awareness.
Ask people what future leaders need, and the answers are usually predictable.
They mention:
strategic thinking,
communication,
innovation,
adaptability,
AI literacy,
emotional intelligence.
All of these matter.
Yet there is one capability that quietly influences all the others.
Self-awareness.
Without self-awareness:
intelligence can become arrogance,
confidence can become overconfidence,
decisiveness can become rigidity,
ambition can become exhaustion,
and experience can become resistance to change.
Self-awareness is different from most skills.
It does not simply add another capability.
It improves the quality of every other capability.
That is why it may be best understood as a meta-skill.
A capability that shapes all other capabilities.
The modern workplace is becoming increasingly complex.
Leaders face:
continuous change,
digital acceleration,
global uncertainty,
information overload,
hybrid work,
and AI-driven transformation.
External complexity is increasing rapidly.
But complexity creates another challenge.
It amplifies internal limitations.
Under pressure, people often become more vulnerable to:
emotional reactivity,
cognitive bias,
defensive thinking,
stress responses,
and unconscious habits.
Technology may evolve exponentially.
Human psychology does not.
This creates a gap.
And inside that gap, self-awareness becomes essential.
Because leaders who cannot understand themselves often struggle to understand the environments they are trying to lead.
Many organizations still assume that intelligence automatically creates effective leadership.
Reality is more complicated.
Some exceptionally intelligent leaders struggle because they are unaware of:
how they communicate,
how others experience them,
how stress affects them,
or how their assumptions shape decisions.
Knowledge alone does not guarantee wisdom.
Information alone does not guarantee insight.
Leadership failures often emerge not from insufficient intelligence but from insufficient awareness.
History provides countless examples of highly intelligent individuals whose lack of self-awareness eventually undermined their effectiveness.
The future of leadership therefore requires something beyond expertise.
It requires conscious leadership.
And conscious leadership begins with self-awareness.
Every leader makes decisions.
But decisions are rarely purely rational.
They are influenced by:
assumptions,
beliefs,
emotions,
experiences,
fears,
expectations,
and cognitive biases.
Many of these influences operate outside conscious awareness.
This creates risk.
Because leaders often assume:
I see reality objectively.
Usually, they do not.
None of us do.
We see reality through our mental models.
Self-awareness helps leaders examine these models.
It encourages questions such as:
Why do I believe this?
What assumptions am I making?
What information am I ignoring?
What emotional factors are influencing my judgment?
These questions improve decision quality.
Not because leaders become perfect.
But because they become more reflective.
And reflection often improves judgment.
Perhaps the greatest danger in leadership is not weakness.
It is unconscious weakness.
Blind spots are particularly dangerous because people cannot see them.
Leaders may unintentionally:
discourage participation,
create fear,
resist feedback,
avoid difficult conversations,
or become overly controlling.
Their intentions may be positive.
Their impact may not.
Leadership is always experienced by other people.
Which means self-awareness requires understanding not only ourselves, but also our impact on others.
This is why feedback is so important.
It allows leaders to see parts of themselves that are difficult to observe alone.
Growth often begins at the edge of awareness.
Modern leadership is emotionally demanding.
Leaders encounter:
uncertainty,
conflict,
disappointment,
pressure,
and constant change.
Emotions influence leadership continuously.
The question is not whether emotions exist.
The question is whether leaders understand them.
Self-awareness allows people to recognize:
What situations trigger stress?
What creates frustration?
What causes defensiveness?
What increases energy?
What depletes motivation?
These insights matter enormously.
Because emotional states influence:
thinking,
communication,
relationships,
and decisions.
Leaders who understand their emotions generally regulate them more effectively.
And emotional regulation creates stability.
Stable leaders often create stable systems.
Leadership is fundamentally relational.
Organizations function through interactions between people.
Relationships depend on:
trust,
communication,
understanding,
and emotional intelligence.
Self-aware leaders tend to:
listen more effectively,
communicate more clearly,
seek feedback,
and remain open to different perspectives.
They become more curious.
Less defensive.
More willing to learn.
This does not make them perfect.
It makes them adaptive.
And adaptability is increasingly important in uncertain environments.
Many people assume that future leadership will become increasingly technological.
That is true.
But it is only part of the story.
As technology grows more powerful, human capabilities become more important.
AI can:
analyze information,
identify patterns,
generate recommendations,
and process extraordinary amounts of data.
What AI cannot fully replace is human self-understanding.
Technology can tell leaders:
what happened,
what might happen,
and what options exist.
It cannot completely answer:
Why do I react this way?
What values drive my decisions?
What assumptions shape my leadership?
What kind of leader do I want to become?
These questions remain deeply human.
And they may become increasingly valuable.
The future rewards adaptation.
Adaptation requires learning.
Learning requires awareness.
This sequence matters.
People rarely change behaviors they do not recognize.
Self-awareness allows leaders to notice:
habits,
assumptions,
patterns,
and limitations.
Once visible, these patterns become manageable.
Without awareness, change becomes difficult.
With awareness, growth becomes possible.
In this sense, self-awareness is the foundation of adaptability.
And adaptability may be one of the defining capabilities of future leadership.
Leaders influence culture continuously.
Every reaction, every conversation, every decision, every behavior sends signals.
These signals shape organizational norms.
Unaware leaders often create cultures unintentionally.
Their stress becomes organizational stress.
Their fear becomes organizational fear.
Their defensiveness becomes organizational defensiveness.
The opposite is also true.
Self-aware leaders often create cultures characterized by:
trust,
openness,
learning,
and psychological safety.
Because awareness changes behavior.
And behavior shapes culture.
One of the reasons why coaching has become increasingly valuable is that awareness rarely develops accidentally.
Modern life moves quickly.
People are constantly:
responding,
solving problems,
making decisions,
and managing complexity.
Reflection becomes rare.
Coaching creates space.
Space to think.
Space to notice.
Space to understand.
Often the most transformative moments in coaching occur when leaders suddenly realize:
I have been operating from assumptions I never questioned.
These moments may appear simple.
Yet they often create profound change.
Because awareness changes possibilities.
Leadership development often focuses on external competencies.
How to:
communicate,
influence,
motivate,
delegate,
and lead change.
These capabilities matter.
But there is also an inner dimension of leadership.
The ability to understand:
ourselves,
our motivations,
our fears,
our assumptions,
our values,
and our patterns.
This inner work is not separate from leadership.
It is leadership.
Because people always lead from who they are.
Not merely from what they know.
The leaders who thrive in the coming decade may not necessarily possess:
the highest IQ,
the greatest expertise,
or the most advanced technology.
Instead, they may possess something more fundamental.
Awareness.
Awareness allows leaders to:
learn continuously,
adapt effectively,
build healthy relationships,
make better decisions,
and create stronger cultures.
It becomes a multiplier.
A capability that improves all other capabilities.
This is why self-awareness may be one of the most important leadership competencies of the future.
Not because it replaces other skills. But because it elevates them.
The future of leadership will undoubtedly involve:
artificial intelligence,
technological transformation,
organizational complexity,
and continuous change.
But amid all this change, one reality remains remarkably stable:
Leaders still lead through themselves.
Their thinking shapes decisions.
Their emotions shape relationships.
Their behaviors shape culture.
Their awareness shapes everything else.
Because ultimately:
The most important system every leader will ever lead is themselves. And the quality of that leadership begins with one capability: Self-awareness.
Tags: Coaching, Future of Work, Leadership
From management Models to Leadership Styles . A Guide for 21st-century Leaders
What is relational leadership? The future of relationship-based leaders
In-Group Favoritism - 50 Cognitive Biases To Be Aware Of
Holistic Development: Why Performance Starts with the Whole Human
Self-Awareness: The Meta-Skill of the Future Leader